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Originally published in an Adam Sarancik Book A close friend from my high school and college years passed away recently. He was, quite simply, the most talented and gifted high school athlete I have ever seen. He taught me there is a significant difference between good and great. More importantly, he taught me that in all areas of life, it takes extraordinary and well-directed hard work to elevate God-given gifts to competitive greatness. I spent countless hours sharing the journey with him on and off the field. I witnessed first-hand the day-to-day grind through trainers and coaches, teams and teammates, championships and heartaches. I learned that to maximize their potential in sports, people must be of high character and integrity, exceptional athletes, and A players with elite sport skills. This journey requires an extraordinary commitment, dedication, and perseverance in the classroom, in the gym, and on the field. If mentored properly, a player learns many life lessons within the game that should translate beyond the game. Sadly, more often than not, they do not. Why? The primary reason today is the pursuit of athletic excellence is most-often a singular obsession. American society is obsessed with sports. Parents are seduced into club ball, travel ball, and leveling-up their player to win medals and championships erroneously assuming that good teams require good players and coaching, and trophies in sports will lead to success in life. The truth is the dream of appearing in a SportsCenter highlight is a one-off, not a predictor of success. In fact, the American obsession and glorification of sports is so intense that many athletes cannot replicate that feeling of excitement in any part of their life outside of and after sports. Many coaches use winning as the measure of all success, present and future. Winning may ensure longevity at their job, but it does not ensure happiness and contentment for their players after their playing days are over. These coaches wrongly assume that all important life-lessons can be learned by inference from competing in the sport. They fail to proactively program life lessons into every training and practice session. Too many coaches and athletic trainers only require from their players a dedication to the sport, not to a balanced life. They simply run their athletes and players through their system of metrics and analytics with no regard for the players' lives outside of the sport. Another basic contributing factor is there are only so many hours in a day. Coaches, teams, and leagues require that, to be elite, you must practice and play in-season and in the off-season. Many times this means a player must play on multiple teams in one sport in-season and play and train for multiple sports simultaneously year-round. How many elite high school athletes hold multiple jobs during those years which require 20 hours a week for, at least, several months? The American education system fails to prepare student-athletes for real world opportunities. For most students, a liberal arts education in most school districts today requires way too many hours studying math and science and way too little on specific work skills and experience for all students. High school students are rushed off to college with little or no idea of a process to choose a career and a crippling assumption that all colleges are equally capable of preparing all students in every major for living-wage, self-actualizing jobs in the real world. Most tragically, student-athletes make the mistake of choosing a college based on whether they can play their sport there and not whether they can get the best education for their career at the college. The day after graduation, those athletes have, at best, some fun memories of being a part of a sports team, but the piece of paper they received during the graduation ceremony gives them no pathway to a meaningful and fulfilling career. My friend was one of those good people who achieved greatness as an athlete, but was seduced into believing that his success on the field would ensure the same happiness and success once his playing days were done. For him, just like millions of other athletes, it did not. We, as coaches, leagues, schools, and society owed him and all those who follow him, better. Every day, we must proactively prepare our players to fill the void. Adam Sarancik is the Author of Four Amazon Top 100 Best Selling Baseball Coaching Books:
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Filling the Void – Life After Sport
